Friday, 30 October 2015
NATIONAL SINGLE PARENT DAY - USA
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Single
Parents' Day takes place each year on March 21st to honor the hard work single
parents do in raising their children.
Single Parents' Day began back in
1984 with an article written by Janice Moglen, a divorced mother of two who
hoped that Single Parents' Day might one day gain the recognition many
associate with both Mother's Day and Father's Day. In collaboration with the
organization Parents
Without Partners, Moglen began to petition
individual states to declare their own recognition of Single Parents' Day.
Single Parents' Day is an
opportunity to recognize the efforts both parents make to provide for their
children’s needs, collaborate with one another, and maintain a stable home
environment where the children can thrive. It is also an opportunity for single
parents themselves to celebrate their efforts and achievements.
Single Parents should take some time
and celebrate what they are overcoming and doing. Possibly even call and
encourage another single parent family as well. Single Parent Families are
strong overcomers and very resourceful. Many daily achievements seem like
mountains to others. Give yourself a pat on the back!!!
Single Parents' Day is also an
opportunity to raise awareness about the determination and strength shown by
the more than 14 million single parents who are raising children in the U.S.
today. Many single parents work to raise their kids
and give them the same opportunities as those from dual family units.
While there is great joy in raising children, it is also a lot to bear all on
your own.
Since its inception, both national
and state proclamations in support of Single Parents' Day have been sporadic.
You can play a role in changing that trend by requesting that both local and
national leaders issue a proclamation in support of Single Parents' Day this
March 21.
Children of single
parents should call their mom or dad on Single Parents' Day and thank them for
their love, commitment, and hard work. Just give them a little recognition and
appreciation.
Monday, 5 October 2015
PROBLEM FACING SINGLE PARENT FAMILIES
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SOME STATISTICS IN SINGLE
PARENT CHILDREN
I a way to learn how big
the problems of singles parent families are;
Single mothers and
fathers have much higher likelihood to live in poverty, as they face incredible
work/life balance issues. Single Parent Families have unique needs and issues
constantly affecting their inability to overcome ruin. The emotional and
financial toll on most of these families is actually helping to create an even
younger population of single parents who are just children themselves.
However, those technically in the “middle class” are
often not eligible for assistance as they don’t qualify as poor. Right now, no
one serves those in this “gap”. Single parent families have to deal with
financial constraints, hectic daily schedules, legal issues, depression,
disability, fear of failure and loneliness.
For my research, I come to realized that, children
from single parent families are more prone
to suicide, teen pregnancy, behavioral disorders, criminal activity and school
avoidance. They also suffer from parental
tension, abandonment, effects of moving, fear of change and losing attachment
to their parents.
To help single parent families navigate through
life, SPCF, a non-profit organization, aims to provide access to information
and resources, and create online and offline programs. Single Parent Children
Foundation hosts a resource directory, a social platform, and serves as an
advocate in private, public and the non-profit sector for single parents. The
information, resources, and social platform equips and empowers single parent
families and helps them do more than they could alone. The three keywords for
SPCF are Help, Heal, and Hope.
SPCF is committed to
breaking this cycle and to help build resource connections for families that
help them to become more productive, more resourceful and more informed on how
to be the best parent they can be for their children. We have vulnerable single
parent children in many areas in Tanzania and some parts of East Africa.
We focus to continue
making a profound difference in the lives of single parent children and their
families in the years to come.
You can be part and friend of SPCF
by donate anything you can.
Contact us:
Mob: +255 713 778 778/ +255 754 818
767
Facebook: Single parent children
foundation
Monday, 7 September 2015
TANZANIA GIVE HOPE FOUNDATION
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TANZANIA
GIVE HOPE FOUNDATION
which is now become "SINGLE PARENT CHILDREN FOUNDATION"
which is now become "SINGLE PARENT CHILDREN FOUNDATION"
“Bringing hope to those in needy”
Give Hope Foundation
focuses on:
Helping vulnerable
members of our society with essential needs and educational endeavors to
alleviate poverty and suffering.
Sunday, 21 June 2015
First International Widows Day at Mnazi mmoja ground in the Capital City of Tanzania
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TAWIA Chairerson, Madame Rose Sarwatt and the Secretary General of Tanzania Widows Association, mr. John Shabani
Tuesday June, 23rd 2015, will
be the first United Nations International Widows Day in Tanzania, a day
dedicated to raising awareness about the plight of widows around the world and
taking action to help them. International Widows Day, which are
commemorated every June 23rd, was established by UN
Resolution 65/189, which was sponsored by Gabon and cosponsored by an
additional fifty-six countries, thanks in large part to the extraordinary
leadership of Gabonese First Lady Sylvia Bongo Ondimba. The campaign to
establish International Widows Day was begun some years ago by the Loomba Foundation, an
organization that has in many ways pioneered widows’ rights.
The establishment of International
Widows Day will shed light on the epidemic of widowhood, a humanitarian crisis
that has gone unnoticed for far too long. Widows and their children make up 15%
of the world’s population, making widowhood an epidemic in the truest sense of
the word. According to the Loomber Foundation,Worldwide, there are 259 million
widows, 115 million of whom live in extreme poverty, according to a 2015 study.
They are faced with stigmatization, their relatives often blaming them for
their husbands’ deaths. The collective imagination in many areas of the world
associates them with bad luck and even witchcraft. According to Raj Loomba who
founded the Loomba Foundation in memory of his mother, Hundreds of elderly
women, primarily widows, are killed for practicing witchcraft each year in
Tanzania according to a report submitted to the CEDAW Committee by HelpAge
International in 2008.
In other areas of the world, widows
are subjected to grieving and funeral rites such as forced ‘purification’
through sexual violence, being ‘inherited’ by male relatives of their deceased
husbands, head shaving, loss of freedoms and social status, and spoliation of
their possessions. The incident of widowhood is often the catalyst for extreme
poverty: in many countries, even where the law forbids it, male relatives of a
widow’s deceased husband will chase her out of her house and seize her land,
her possessions, and sometimes even her children. This sudden descent into
poverty often forces widows to resort to begging and entering into dangerous
sex work to support themselves and their families.
The more than 500 million children
of widows worldwide are not only subject to kidnapping by their father’s
relatives, but are deprived of schooling, health care, and proper nutrition
because their mothers cannot afford to provide for them, continuing the cycle
of poverty. 1.5 million of these children will die before their fifth birthday
because their mothers cannot pay for health care. Extreme poverty also makes
these children prime targets for human trafficking, with traffickers often
tricking impoverished parents (frequently widows) into sending their children
away to what they think will be a better life, when in fact these traffickers
force children into sexual slavery, a phenomenon documented in Nicholas Kristof
and Sheryl WuDunn’s excellent book, Half the Sky.
In spite of these disturbing
realities, the International Widows Day celebration in Tanzania will gives us
reason to be hopeful. Among the inspiring speakers at that day will be
Dr. Hellen Kijo Bisimba - Executive Director of Legal and Human Rights Centre,
Director of Tamwa – Tanzania Women Lawyers Association, Angellah Kairuki - a special
seat Member of
Parliament of Tanzania since 2010 and Deputy
Minister for Lands, Housing and Human Settlement. Lilian Liundi – Director of
Tanzania Gender Networking Programme-TGNP.
Also we expect to have peolple from RITA –
Registration Insolvency and Trusteeship Agency.
The speakers at Widows day will
share many practical, actionable ideas to help widows around the Tanzania.
Some will emphasize
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The importance of establishing
property rights for widows as well as rights to employment and self-employment,
and others will emphasize:
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The importance of teaching widows
how to advocate for their own rights and of strengthening judicial systems so
that laws protecting widows are enforced,
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The need for widows to have access
to credit. Microcredit has been proven to help lift women out of poverty,
and their families too – as you may know, out that the World Bank found that
women and girls reinvest 90% of
their income in their families, compared to the 30-40% that men reinvest in
their families. Many panelists emphasized the importance of helping
widows pay for their children’s education, which will help break the cycle of
poverty by giving children the knowledge and skills to support themselves financially.
Other seaker will will stresse:
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The importance of equality in
marriage, so that women are prepared to support themselves financially after
their husbands pass away. All of the panelists emphasized the importance
of bringing awareness to the plight of widowhood, a largely silent humanitarian
crisis – as Purnima Mane eloquently put it, “widows’ rights are human rights.”
HOW WE DO
We provide funding to widows for
urgent basic needs like medical procedures, medication, housing, and
utilities. Through our employment program, we train widows to enter the
workforce, investing in basic literacy, math, and computer skills programs for
them and teaching them marketable skills like sewing, embroidery, beadwork, and
woodworking.
Through our partnerships, we can
offer the widows we serve micro-loans to build businesses out of these
skills. We also create service based jobs for widows like childcare,
elderly/hospice care, and housekeeping. roviding the orphanage with
critically necessary caregivers and teachers at the same time as we provide
widows with jobs and income. We also help widows educate their children,
keeping their children safe in the short term and improving their job prospects
in the long term so that they can break the cycle of poverty. There are
currently over 500 widows in our program. Our work has only just begun.
We met and heard from so many inspiring leaders in widows’ rights; with their
leadership and the international community’s dedication, we can make a
difference in widows’ lives in Tanzania and around the world.
Thursday, 4 June 2015
CHAMA CHA WAJANE TANZANIA - TAWIA, MKOMBOZI WA WAJANE TANZANIA
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Hivyo pamoja na mkakati wa John Shabani wa kujitolea kuwatembelea watu wanaoishi katika mazingira magumu na kutafuta namna ya kuwasaidia, mwanaharakati wa kujtolea wa haki za binadumu John Shabani; safari hii ameungana na mwanamama mwenye uchungu wa kutetea haki za mjane Bi Rose Sarwatt na kuanzisha chama cha wajane Tanzania.
Chama cha Wajane Tanzania (Tanzania Widows Association)
chenye usajili na S.A. 19708, ni chama kilichoanzishwa
rasmi mnamo mwaka 2014, kikiwa na lengo la kuwaweka wajane pamoja, ili
kutambuana, kufahamiana, kujua changamoto mbalimbali anazopitia mjane, na
kutafuta ufumbuzi wa kutatua changamoto hizo.
Ikiwemo kusomesha watoto, elimu ya sheria, afya, saikologia, biashara na
ujasiriamali.
Vilevile chama
kinajihusisha na kutoa elimu kwa jamii juu ya mjane, iwatambue wajane,
kuwapenda, kuwathamini na kuwasaidia kwa namna moja ama nyingine, pia kujitoa
kwa hali na mali kusaidia kupambana na changamoto anazopitia mjane. Pia chama kinasimamia sheria inayotetea haki
za mjane Tanzania, ikiwemo hati ya mirathi na usimamizi wa mali za familia
baada ya kifo cha mume wa mjane. Hivyo chama
hiki kitarejesha matumaini mapya kwa mjane, na wajane watarajiwa. Pia kwa namna moja au nyingine, kujihusiha na
haki za mgane na watoto walioachwa na wazazi (yatima).
Mawasiliano
CHAMA CHA WAJANE TANZANIA
“Tanzania Widows Association”
“Tanzania Widows Association”
P.O.Box 33476,
Dar es salaam
Simu:
+255 754 366 530 – Mwenyekiti
+255 713 778 778 – Katibu
E-mail: widowstz@gmail.com
FACEBOOK: Widows Tanzania
TWITTER: @TanzaniaWidows